How to Breakup with Your Boyfriend

Breaking up with your boyfriend can be one of the hardest things you have to do. A break-up should be considered an ultimate form of confrontation, and many of us do not do well in that area. Keep in mind there are many different routes you can take to break up with your boyfriend, but if you want what’s best for the two of you, be mature about it. This guide will help you break up with your boyfriend sensibly and smoothly.

Instructions

Step 1

Think it over. Weigh the pros and cons of the situation. When you come face to face with your boyfriend, you need to be prepared for what you are going to say to him. Consider his reaction to the news and what he might say.

Step 2

Meet with your boyfriend in person. Make sure the location where the break-up is going to take place is in a comfortable setting for the both of you. This will ease nerves and help make it easier to talk.

Step 3

Let your boyfriend know you have something important to say once you meet. Make it clear that he needs to listen.

Step 4

State your opinion on why you want to break up. This is the most important step. Your boyfriend needs to hear very clearly why you want to break up with him. Speak in well-thought out sentences. You need to show that you know exactly what you want so he won’t doubt your thinking.

Step 5

Ask how he feels about the situation. Keep an open mind to his opinions, but don’t lose sight of your own argument. Even though you are breaking up with him, his opinion still counts.

Step 6

Hold your ground. Once you have broken up, never go back to that relationship. Remember, you broke up with your boyfriend for a reason, so don’t forget it. Don’t be convinced that your boyfriend has changed in such a short period of time, because chances are, he hasn’t.


Tips & Warnings


1) Always break up with your boyfriend in person, never over the phone or through instant messenger.

2) Don’t lie about why you want to break up with him. Honesty is still the best policy.

3) Remain calm and composed; don’t make things worse than they already are.

4) Try not to blame each other; it could lead to a fight.

Never break up with an abusive boyfriend in person. In this case, avoid contact with him for the break-up. Have a friend tell him, send an e-mail, or if you must, call him on the phone.

Song Of The Day..I Got A Feeling by BLACK EYED PEAS

I got a feeling that tonight’s gonna be a good night
that tonight’s gonna be a good night
that tonight’s gonna be a good good night ooh hoo (x4)

Tonight’s the night night
Let’s live it up
I got my money
Let’s spend it up
go out and smash it
like oh my god
Jump off that sofa
Let’s get get Down

I know that we’ll have a ball
if we get down
and go out
and just lose it all

I feel stressed out
I wanna let it go
Lets go way out spaced out
and losing all control

Fill up my cup
Mazeltov
Look at her dancing
just take it off
Lets paint the town
We’ll shut it down
Let’s burn the roof
and then we’ll do it again

Lets Do it and do it and do it 1
and do it and do it 2
and do it and do it and live it 3
up and do it, do it
4
do it, do it, and do it 5
and do it and do it and do it 6
and do it and do it and 7

i gotta feeling that tonight’s gonna be a good night
that tonight’s gonna be a good night
that tonight’s gonna be a good good night (x2)

Tonight’s the night
let’s live it up
I got my money
Lets spend it up

Go out and smash it
Like Oh My God (oh my god)
Jump off that sofa
Lets kick it up

Fill up my cup (Drink)
Mazel tov (lachiem)
Look at her dancing (Move it Move it)
Just take it off

Lets paint the town
We’ll shut it down (shut it down)
Lets burn the roof
and then we’ll do it again

1
2
3
4
5
6
7


Here we come
here we go
we gotta rock rock
rock rock rock

Easy come
easy go
now we on top
top top top top

Feel the shot
body rock
Rock it don’t stop stop
stop stop

Round and round
up and down
around the clock clock clock clock

Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday
Friday, Saturday, Saturday and Sunday

we keep keep keep keep going up
we know what we say say
party everyday
p-p-p-party everyday

got a feeling (ooooooo ooooooo)
that tonights gonna be a good night
that tonights gonna be a good night
that tonights gonna be a good good night
(oooooooooooo ooooooooooo)

Money Is Everything

I think money not everything but that is most important other thing we need for our lives.If you think about that a little , you know that when you havent health in your live what will happen? I think money is necessary for me but not all of my purpose in my live.

"With money you can buy a house but not a home;With money you can buy a clock but not time; With money you can buy a bed but not sleep; With money you can buy a book but not knowledge; With money you can buy a doctor but not health; With money you can buy a position but not respect; With money you can buy blood but not life; With money you can buy sex but not love."

I think that money is very important thing in our lives.
Without money we are not able to live... If we would be able to live without the money - why do we work, what for? I don;t belive that some people work for their pleasure only... We work, we spent 8 hours or more in a work, we don't like our bosses, our boring offices - but we go there every day to earn money! of course money is not a thing that can make us happy, but we feel secure, safe and calm when we know that our bank account isn't empty...

Money isn't everything but... there are many but's... A simple example: witout money you can't have an internet, so you can't develop your language, what reduces to your unknown, and so on...It should be enough money to study, to develop abilities and not to worry about the future.

Second Day Of Quit Smoking, I am Not Feeling Well

Family members, friends, colleagues and associates who don't smoke also benefit when you stop. Find out how...


Benefits of Quitting Smoking
20 min. - Blood pressure and pulse return to normal.

8 hrs - Nicotine and carbon monoxide levels in blood reduce by half. Oxygen levels return to normal.

24 hrs - Carbon monoxide will be eliminated from the body. Lungs start to clear out mucous and other smoking debris.

48 hrs - There is no nicotine left in the body. Ability to taste and smell is greatly improved.

72 hrs - Breathing becomes easier. Bronchial tubes begin to relax and energy levels increase.

2-12 weeks - Circulation improves.

3-9 months -Coughs, wheezing and breathing problems improve as lung functions are increased by up to 10%.

5 yrs - Risk of heart attack falls to about half that of a smoker.

10 yrs - Risk of lung cancer falls to about half that of a smoker. Risk of heart attack falls to the same as someone who has never smoked.



More Benefits of Giving Up Smoking
1)Confidence
Stopping smoking is a challenge. Once you have quit, you will know you can succeed at difficult taks and take more control of your life. Quitting helps you believe in yourself.

2)Fitness
Smoking makes it harder to exercise and reduces the benefits to your body. Smokers have more coughs and colds than non-smokers and take longer to feel well again.

3)Money
In a way, giving up smoking is like getting a pay rise, as much as £1500 a year if you smoke 20 cigarettes a day.
4) Appearance
Skin starved of oxygen by smoking becomes dry and grey. Wrinkles around the eyes and mouth develop much earlier and the tar stains your teeth and fingers.

5) Fertility
Men who smoke may suffer impotence due to damage to the blood vessels in the penis. Sperm quality and density can also be affected by smoking. Smokers may produce less sperm and their sperm may have more abnormalities. Women who smoke take longer to conceive and are more likely to have a miscarriage.

6) Childbirth
Babies born to mothers who smoked in pregnancy are more likely to be premature, stillborn or die shortly after birth. A baby exposed to tobacco smoke has a higher risk of dying from cot death.

7) Children Children whose parents smoke are more likely to get pneumonia and bronchitis in their first year of life, to suffer from more frequent and more severe asthma attacks and to become regular smokers themselves.

A Famosa

A Trip To A Famosa Melaka. September 2009